Comes in the Mo(u)rning: Showing Up Matters

You cannot know what people need if you are not around them or trying to place yourself in the space to care. We come with our already set plans of what we will do and who we will be for folks but grief doesn’t work like that. And we can’t be committed to scripts when the narrative constantly changes. 

Comes in the Mo(u)rning: Showing Up Matters

Comes in the Mo(u)rning: Making Meaning and Messes

We often don’t think through the implications of what it means to say the wrong things to people who are already hurting. We assume that, because we mean well, what we say will be accepted in that spirit. But, just because we mean well doesn’t mean that we are giving people what they need in that moment. 

Comes in the Mo(u)rning: Making Meaning and Messes

A Church Girl Confession: How Embracing My Own Sexuality Made Me An Ally

The church has been and is wrong for how we have treated same gender loving and queer people because the church has been consistently wrong in its discussion of the relationship between God and sexuality.

A Church Girl Confession: How Embracing My Own Sexuality Made Me An Ally